So - why are we talking about Forgiveness? Forgiveness of ourselves and others? Speaking from my own experience, when I reached a healthy understanding of things in my life, it was as if the covers had been lifted from my eyes. There was a period when I become super-aware of my own shortcomings, which had now been claimed and named, but also became much more conscious of how others behaved. I resolved to accept everything - exactly as it was - not trying to change anyone or a